Over the years, I have had the great honor to work with loving couples who want to AMPLOVEFY their sensual physical~spiritual connection. The following is a recap of how one particular program originated for a very cool couple-client.
Normally, when coaching couples, I work with one person at a time, creating a safe and judgement-free space for that person's exploration and expression of their wondrous body, mind, and spirit. They then have a monthly joint session to weave together their learning and growth. In the case of this couple, however, the intention remained the same but the energy was more playful and so they chose to dive into Tantra.
The intimacy, sensuality, and connection was already present between these two partners, and they were prepared to explore and express TOGETHER, evolving their bond.
After a consultation to get clear about where each partner was at that moment, and where they wanted to go jointly, we stepped into the Sanctuary. To bring ease and fluidity into the body we moved through a few couples yoga postures before a guided meditation. The meditation took the couple through the Chakras, or energy centers within the body, and was also a conscious breathing exercise. After creating a foundation for connection and "Feeling rather than Thinking", we shifted into sensual full body massage.
He was the first recipient. Together she and I gave him a loving, compassionate, slow, mindful massage working from head to toe. Teaching someone the art of sensual massage was extremely rewarding for me. Additionally, the openess and acceptance this couple expressed to one another is truly inspiring! When he was well tended to, the couple switched giver and receiver so that he and I could spread the love-treatment over her body next. I think she may have mentioned that his skills improved in that mini-massage coaching session. Gentlemen take note! Ladies LOVE a skilled sensual massage from their lover!!
The loving energy was quite palpable so I slipped out of the Sanctuary and allowed the couple to complete their time together how they saw fit.
This was as much a rewarding experience for me as I believe it was for the beautiful couple. Clearly, what there is to do for me now is develop more around this type of session...maybe a program?...in the near future. (AND THIS IS HOW TANTRIC 6 WAS BORN)
And so here's a "heads-up" to all my marvelous male clients: Imagine how glorious it could be if you and your wife/girlfriend had the skill and the mind-set to give each other a FULL BODY SENSUAL MASSAGE at home!
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Is Tantra something you're curious about but feel like it might be too "woo woo"? I used to feel the same way! So in response, I have translated the ancient wisdom and practices into a modern-day language and application the the most UNhippie person can benefit from. Call 512-491-9774 for a convo with me about it!
P.S. After several sessions with this couple I received the touching comments below.
My wife and I started our journey with you over a year ago, and it has been one of the most rewarding experiences of our lives. We were not sure what we would be in for, and have been truly blessed to have met you and have you in our lives. It was scary to allow someone into our intimate space, but you are now one with us spiritually… and for that we are forever intertwined with you. You are truly a blessing to our lives and hope that in some way we have been the same for you.We are extremely excited about where your future leads you, and know that we are better for having met and had this experience of growth with you. -- J & N